One's character becomes stronger. And surroundings become more complicated.
Adaptation is important.
Kadang-kadang kita tak suka dengan behaviour orang, tp nak x nak kena adapt. terima. (cakap memang senang, tapi its not)
Nak terima sesuatu tu perlu effort, sbb diri sendiri bukan mcm tu. N kalau benda tu buruk, bukan setakat terima, tapi takut-takut bila dah terima, kita absorb skali. Nauzubillah.
So, solution dia: jadi balik kanak-kanak please. (I don't remember any kind of adaptation happened during my childhood) Tapi semua org tau tu semua impossible. (Lain la kalau ada time machine)
Then, someone said:
"Some things r complicated kalau kita fikir or buat complicated
Kalau kita tkleh be simple, at least we can keep things simple"
Ayat dia atas telah buat saya fikir 5 minit, tanpa buat apa-apa.
Solution: Kalau kita x boleh nak terima perangai orang, x payah susah-susah nk sakit hati atau sedih-sedih. Just we know yang kita tak buat macam tu. Yang penting hati kita x sakit kepala pun x pening.
The advise will come later naturally :)
Oh Siti, you solve a mystery!
